Weekly Devotional

What to Do When God Feels Far

Sometimes God can feel far away. What can we do to reconnect with God?

Written by Explore God on 01/05/2023

And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God.

Revelation 21:3

This morning, after dropping off my kids at school, I tried to pray. It should have been easy. I was alone in the car; it was finally quiet. But I couldn’t seem to summon the focus or desire. I felt distracted, lethargic, listless.

Thankfully, the clouds soon parted—like they always do. Before I knew it, I was cruising down the road, communing with the Lord and enjoying his palpable presence. Here’s my secret to a swift turnaround when I feel disconnected from God . . .

Just kidding.

That’s what I wish I could write. Perhaps it’s what you’d prefer to read. But it’s not accurate. The truth is more complicated, as it usually is.


Honestly, nothing supernatural happened while I drove. I’ve since made my way to a coffee shop, where I now sit, still stuck. God seems far from me today, and I’m not entirely sure why.

My wife and I didn’t fight this morning. There’s no stressful deadline at work. I’m not facing a massive financial crisis.

I wish that I could say the way I feel today is bizarre. But honestly, it’s a pretty normal Thursday. It’s not that unusual for me to feel a little disconnected, even when I try to prioritize my relationship with God. In fact, I don’t even always notice it as quickly as I did this morning.

Is that the case for you? Do you ever wonder if God is really there for you anymore?


It’s pretty normal for all of us to have seasons when we don’t feel particularly “plugged in” with God. So what should we do when we feel distant from God for days, months, or even years?

How can we reconnect with God and reestablish our relationship? There’s no quick fix, but there are a few ways to cultivate a sense of his nearness.

1. Continue to Seek God

When my feeble effort to pray fell flat, I should have kept at it rather than giving up so easily. Often, the moments when we don’t feel like praying are the moments when we need to the most.

When it seems like God is silent in response to our prayers or when we’re simply feeling disengaged, it can be hard to keep talking.

But the Bible reassures us that what we’re experiencing won’t last forever: “For no one is cast off by the Lord forever. Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction or grief to anyone.” Lamentations 3:31–33 (NIV)

Other translations write that last sentence like this:

“He does not afflict from his heart or grieve the children of man.” Lamentations 3:31–33 (ESV)

“He does not enjoy bringing affliction or suffering on mankind.” Lamentations 3:31–33 (CSB)

This means that when you’re going through a tough time, God isn’t just messing with you. He finds no joy in watching you suffer, and it won’t last forever.

These times are opportunities to live out our faith, to exercise our belief that God is true to His promise to be with us always. (Deuteronomy 31:6) So keep crying out to Him, even if—or especially when—it seems your words are bouncing off the ceiling.

2. Examine Your Heart

Seize the opportunity to take stock of what’s going on in your heart and mind. Are there any areas of life where you’re holding on to anger, pride, greed, or envy? Are you struggling with any particular sins?

The Bible repeatedly warns that unconfessed sin impedes our connection with God. At its core, sin is the failure to uphold God’s commands. Sins aren’t like heavenly parking tickets; they are personal offenses against God. Disobedience, therefore, always leads to distance.

And yet, the pages of Scripture ring with good news: “Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.” (Proverbs 28:13)

That means that if we own up to what we’ve done wrong and turn away from that wrongdoing, we’ll find forgiveness. The God of the Bible is a God of mercy. He forgives, welcomes, and embraces those who make mistakes, admit to them, and humble themselves in repentance.

3. Consider God's Past Faithfulness

Perhaps the best way to draw near to God is to reflect on what He has done in the past to draw near to you. Two millennia ago, on a hill outside of Jerusalem, God demonstrated the lengths to which He would go in order to bring people closer to Him.

Hanging on a Roman cross, Jesus, the Son of God, was crucified and died to bridge the gap between humans and God. Christians believe that with His resurrection, Jesus restored the pathway to direct, personal relationship with God.

When you are tempted to despair, when you fear that God has forgotten or forsaken you, when you worry you’ll never feel His presence again . . . take time to remember that Christ died for you. He won’t abandon you now.

This truth is the same no matter how we feel. We can take comfort in Hebrews 13:8, which tells us, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.”


Feeling far from God like I did this morning is a regular experience for most of us. Of course, many feel disconnected for more recognizable and challenging reasons: a wave of suffering has crashed into their life, wreaking havoc and leaving in its wake unwelcome questions and unspeakable pain.

But the hope of the Christian rests in God’s promises: Whether your current circumstances feel common or crushing, there is a Father in heaven who sees you, who knows you, and who wants you.

Yes, our world is broken, filled with heartache and disappointment. But God promises that it won’t always be that way. There will come a time when “the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God.” (Revelation 21:3)

Even when it may feel like it, you are not forgotten or forsaken.

Pray this week:

God, when I feel distant from you, help me to remember your promises. Remind me that you are there in my lowest times and will celebrate with me in my best times. 

When was a time in your life you felt distant from God? How did you find your way back to Him?  You can connect with a caring volunteer below who can answer your questions.

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